Advantages of Abstinence Until Marriage.
In this age and era abstinence is not practiced and value between engaged couples as it was fifty years ago. This era has changed a lot, and it has seen the moral values go down the drain. Below are the merits reaped by a couple which waits to make love to one another on the night of their wedding.
The first advantage you reap from abstinence is that there is great communication between you and your couple. Communication is key for the success of a marriage. Bad communication habits tend to develop when a couple starts having sex before marriage. As much as sex is a form of intimacy on a physical level it deprives both the lady and the man to connect emotionally and have an intimate relationship which clearly brings out their unique emotional aspects and this negatively impacts communication between them. When the two are together or plan to spend time together, most of it is spent on sex rather than spending it on talking which is more revealing in terms of character, emotions, and personality.
The second benefit of abstinence is that you build a stronger bond and relationship with you mate. A physical bond tends to emerge between a couple which engages in sex before they are married. It is inevitable for a physical bond fostered through intimacy to wear away if it doesn’t have an emotional bonds backing. Developing an emotional bond guarantees continual in your marriage even when your physical intimacy wears off. When you abstain from sex before marriage and focus on building on emotional intimacy. You establish a friendship, trust, culture, and loyalty throughout your married life.
Abstinence also encourages more romance in a relationship. Romance in a relationship manifests in the sweet things the couples do for one another such as caring, sending cute messages, sharing of gifts, going out on dates and picnics. Romance tends to die off when a couple starts to engage in sex as sex acts as replacement for it. Engaging in sex satisfies the yearn for romance as both are gestures of intimacy and when sex prevails, romance is inhibited. By avoiding sex, you tend to come up with creative ways of showing devotion, love and attraction to your partner and this creates a very strong bond between you and your loved one which you bring along into marriage.
Lastly, abstinence fosters generosity within the relationship of two partners. It is very dangerous when a couple engages in sex before marriage as it leads to more sex cravings and a sense of selfishness may develop with one or both partners thinking that their better half should be submissive to them when they are in the mood. This can ultimately lead to a collapse of the relationship. All this can be avoided if you wait and become physical after marriage.